I agree, he never will be the father I wish he was. It just feels sickening to me that he did something to actively not have her in his life.

I can still get divorced without his signature. It's a lot of extra steps though. It does mean I cannot get the financial agreement I want, I just have to leave things as they are, which sucks.

Thank you for sharing that with me. I'm sorry you had to live with that.

Good people...I can do that.

Thank you for your advice!