I could write an entire article in response to this. Haha. Ugh, I think you do what is right for you. Like you said, it's your life and you know the way you want to live it.

I'm glad Ramzi knows when you're going through the torture zone and comforts you. So sweet!

I've thought about this too. If I'm ever in a long term relationship again, how am I going to trust them? Particularly with finances. If we live together, my daughter is under that roof and I am not almost losing another house! I would have to have full access to financials, credit card info and credit scores. Does that make me psycho? I don't know. I just can't risk us almost being out on the street again.

As far as looking at the other things one might find on a phone... I don't think I would want to look either. There has to be trust. But men are shit.

You know what? I'm just staying single forever. Nothing but FWB. There aren't any good ones left anyway. Where the fuck is the wine?