It is. That's a great idea. I haven't done that. Thanks for suggesting it! I have Credit Karma for my US finances. I will check it in a minute - I didn't think of that either.

Wow. Your ex did all of that? I still remember you telling me about having to drop your daughter off with him. What a piece of work. I'm sorry you had to "unfuck" all of that. I bet it was a nightmare!