Wow, your friend isn't wasting much time...her son is very young. I'm sorry, I shouldn't judge either.

I'm not dating yet and I've been separated 18 months. One of my friends just joined Tinder and has her first date this weekend. She's been separated for 4 weeks. I was very surprised, somewhat like you were. I suggested that she take some time to heal and then left it alone. Like you, I'm not allowing myself to be pressured. I'm loving my life focused on my daughter and writing. I'm happy. Glad to hear you are too! There's more to life than romantic relationships.